Work With Me

When you’re ready to work with me as a coach, there are many different ways you can do that! Pick the option that works best for you! If you have questions about any of these choices, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

 

Relationship and Dating Coaching - starting at $165

Interpersonal relationships are complex, and there are a number of concrete skills involved in maintaining and improving them, but very few of us receive any formal training on how to do that. If you struggle with your intimate partnerships from time to time, it’s not surprising. This is even more true for non-standard relationship structures such as non-monogamy. You can’t and shouldn’t always rely on your partners, friends, or family members to provide information or expertise that you’re otherwise lacking. I can help with this! I promise to listen to even the most personal story with empathy and without judgment.

Some examples of the kinds of scenarios we can address together:

  • Creating an online dating profile

  • Figuring out what to do on a first date

  • Opening up your relationship or renegotiating non-monogamy

  • Asking for something new from your partner

  • Navigating jealousy or relationships with metamours

  • Strategies for nurturing an existing committed partnership

We can come up with a concrete plan, with actionable steps just like any other project. I want you to have the relationships of your very wildest dreams! But I’m also here as a sounding board for thoughts and ideas and emotions that you’re not ready to share with any of the important people in your life. Again, sessions are entirely for you, and we’ll set the agenda together.

 

Thriving in Late-Stage Capitalism - Starting at $165

Even though career coaching represents the bulk of my client conversations, I had the hardest time describing this offering, mostly because I don’t fuck with the contemporary fetishization of productivity. I don’t think you need to have a career or a job or finish even a single creative project for your life to have value. However, you probably have to do something with your time that earns you the money to pay your bills. And you possibly also want to be doing something meaningful with that time, perhaps even create something that will live on beyond you. Sometimes, capitalism being what it is, these two desires are in direct opposition with one another.

I want to help you find balance in this part of your life, to set boundaries where you need to, and open up space for abundance and creativity and ambition where you feel called to it. 

Some examples of the kinds of scenarios we can address together:

  • Getting started on creative or entrepreneurial projects 

  • Setting up project calendars. (I can be an accountability partner for self-imposed deadlines!)

  • Scripts for workplace and interpersonal boundaries

  • Strategies for time management

  • Managing colleague and client relationships

  • Career transitions and job searches

I want you to have the most aligned, pleasurable, and sustainable relationship to your work, your creativity and your sense of purpose! We can find or build concrete strategies to get you there.

 

Long-Term Coaching

If you want someone to walk beside you as you take on a longer term project or goal, I also offer ongoing coaching on a monthly basis. This includes weekly coaching sessions, and the ability to ask me questions and receive support via text or email in between sessions. Depending on the level of support we agree upon, this service starts at $825 a month. If you’re interested in working with me on an ongoing basis, you can send me an email, or schedule a free 15-minute consultation to discuss it!

 

Clarifying Activist Intentions - $50

We, humans, are facing multiple overlapping, globally urgent challenges. It’s vital that we each figure out what it is we can contribute to building the better world we know is possible, and then doing that thing. I’ve advised many people as they are working out how best to support their communities or participate in social change movements, and I’d be delighted to help you do the same. I’m charging a small fee because I have found that if people pay for this support, they’re more likely to actually take action afterwards. And I desperately want you to take action! Send me an email if you’re interested in this kind of support. If the price would otherwise inhibit you from having this conversation, please let me know, and we can work something out.

 

Pick My Brain! - Starting at $165

What if your problem isn’t covered by the other categories? Or you have a combination of things you want to talk about? Or you want to ask me a bunch of questions? Or you just need to talk to someone? That’s exactly what this option is for! This session is entirely for you. I will give you my full attention and expertise. The outcomes for this session will greatly depend on the nature of your question, but expect to walk away with more clarity, and if applicable, at least one actionable step to help you move forward.

 

Accessibility

If you have financial barriers to getting the support you need or want from me, please know that it is my goal to make my work as accessible as possible, especially for Black and Indigenous folks, the queer and trans community, people with disabilities, anyone marginalized by the white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal, settler colonial society we find ourselves in. I promise not to ask you to disclose anything about yourself if you reach out to me asking for financial accommodations for access to my support. Please get in touch, and we will find a way to make it happen!